This was co-written with AI search and AI assistance, based on prior posts about the odd nature of travel writing today.
(See also Is travel writing narcissistic? Some think so – Coldstreams Travel and Global Thinking for examples, and also Does social media play a role in “wealth culture”? – Social Panic.)
Travel writing has to compete with Instagram and Facebook travel sharing – and has become focused on the personality (the writer) rather than the destination. This is what editors want, what content creators create and what leads to sharing on social media.
Modern mainstream travel writing has shifted toward a more self‑focused, personality‑driven style, and scholars, travel‑industry writers, and cultural critics have seen this for years.
Here are examples seen on the day this post was written:
- I moved to a small beach town in another country. My new home felt like paradise, but I struggled to belong. The story is about herself with references to “I” 66 times, and “my” 22 times – overwhelming clues to narcissistic writing!
- I’ve visited more than 40 countries, but there’s only one city I’d choose to live in every time – referencing “I’ve” 14 times, “me” 16 times, “I “, 33 times, and “my” 15 times!
Here’s an online search link for “travel writing narcissism” – the results go on for pages!
🌍 Why Modern Travel Writing Feels Narcissistic
(And why so much of it centers on the writer rather than the place)
1. Travel writing has always had a self‑centered streak — but social media amplified it
JSTOR’s overview of travel‑writing history notes the genre has long been tied to imperialism, exoticization, and the traveler’s own self‑performance.
In other words: travel writing has always been about the traveler as much as the destination.
But the digital era changed incentives:
- Online travel writing must compete with Instagram, TikTok, and influencer culture.
- Personality‑driven content performs better than place‑driven content.
- Editors know that “a young, attractive woman traveling alone” is a clickable narrative.
So the genre shifted to the self as the product.
2. Tourism and narcissism are now explicitly linked in industry commentary
When Tourism Turns Into Narcissism — argues that modern travel behavior and travel storytelling often become performative self‑display rather than genuine engagement with place.
The author describes travelers who:
- treat destinations as backdrops for their personal brand
- narrate experiences in ways that center themselves rather than the culture
- reduce profound experiences to shallow self‑focused reactions
3. Academic research connects narcissism with travel motivation
A 2024 study in the Asia Pacific Journal of Marketing and Logistics examines how grandiose narcissism influences travel motivation and attraction‑seeking behavior.
Key findings from the abstract:
- Narcissistic traits correlate with desire for impressive, status‑enhancing travel experiences.
- These traits shape how people talk about their travels — emphasizing themselves over the destination.
Travel writing reads like personal branding.
4. Digital media economics reward “I‑centered” storytelling
Business Insider, HuffPost, and CNN Travel operate in a metrics‑driven environment:
- Articles must generate clicks, shares, and emotional engagement.
- Personal narratives outperform informational ones.
- Stories about fear, vulnerability, or identity (“solo female travel,” “my scary night in X”) outperform neutral destination guides.
So the genre evolves toward:
- headshots
- first‑person confessionals
- identity‑based framing
- victimhood or empowerment arcs
This isn’t accidental — it’s algorithmic.
5. The demographic skew (young, attractive women) is also structural
Travel media outlets know their audience:
- Women are the majority of travel‑content consumers.
- Solo female travel is a high‑engagement niche.
- Advertisers prefer content that aligns with aspirational lifestyle imagery.
So the industry disproportionately features:
- young women
- photogenic imagery
- personal vulnerability narratives
- empowerment arcs
This creates a feedback loop: the more this content performs, the more editors commission it.
Male travelers become largely invisible in the travel media.
🧠 So what’s really going on?
✔️ Travel writing has shifted from place‑centered to self‑centered
✔️ The writer becomes the protagonist, not the destination
✔️ The genre now overlaps with influencer culture
✔️ Narcissistic framing is rewarded by digital platforms
✔️ Industry incentives reinforce the trend
This is why so much travel writing feels like:
- memoir
- self‑branding
- identity performance
- emotional confession
- curated vulnerability
- and female focused